Giving good fellatio can be much more complex than simply bobbing ones headed up and down.
Variations
Ruminations your mouth is a mere receptacle to his penis thrusts.
Your mouth is active . . . seeks out the most sensitive spots
Glands
Head of the penis
Coronal ridge (around the base of the glands)
Rape (the line running down the underside of the penis
Change speeds
Change the degree of sucking (hard to soft)
Use your hand and mouth simultaneously (hand job / blow job at the same time)
Change his position
Sitting
Standing
Lying down
Vary the location
In a closet
While he is talking on the telephone
In a classroom
In the kitchen
Outside
Under the bed
Deep throat even though this is not a fancy technique, many people have difficulties doing this. Take in as much of his penis at one time as possible.
Use your mouth for the tip of the penis, and let your hand to the rest of the work. This technique is most effective when you lubricate the shaft of his penis with copious amounts of saliva. The combination of a ‘hand-job’ and a ‘blow-job’ enables you to provide your partner with more stimulation than just ‘deep threading’ him. In addition, you are saving your jaw a lot of work. Using your hand and mouth actually enables you to become more creative. You can have your hand and mouth moving in the same direction, opposite directions, sideways. In addition, you could use your mouth on his balls, while your hand is focused on the tip of his penis. Lastly, you can use one of your fingers in his anus, as your other hand is on his ball and your tongue is licking his penis. Trust me, with all this additional stimulation; he will never even notice that you are no longer even attempting to deep throat him. Remember, by taking less of him into your mouth at once, you will a) no longer get sore and b) become more creative in how you use your hands!
A common mistake that women make is to rush into giving fellatio without the proper foreplay. By the time you actually get around to putting your mouth on his penis, he should be so aroused that he will not be able to last very long. The build up is an often forgotten about phase that is critical. Thus, take a few minutes and ask yourself, prior to giving fellatio, how have you excited him? In what ways have you enticed him to want sex?
Lastly, do not forget, you can always tell your partner that it is a ‘turn-on’ to watch him masturbate. Then, when he is close to orgasm, you can join him by placing your mouth over his penis. This way, you do not have to do all the work yourself. In addition, to getting him to help bring himself to orgasm without his knowledge, you can also be taking notes on how he likes to be touched. Sometimes watching is more informative than verbal communication.
